This is my story with Emotional Intelligence (EI); I encourage you to give yourself such an opportunity. This incident happened with a co- worker of mine and it was too difficult for me to forget it due to the impact it left on me.
The incident also opened my eyes to number of very critical issues in my personal and professional life. Definitely, there were things that I never realized, and as the Dr. said then: 'There are things around us that we know, but we don